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Is closure with my ex really necessary?

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We had been going out for more than a year already when I found out that she had been participating in multiple city singles tours for a few months. After an ugly confrontation, I broke up with her and haven’t been in contact since. A few nights ago, I checked Messenger on my phone and saw that she sent me an IM saying she wanted to talk for “closure.” I didn’t respond until now and my friends have been telling me to go for it; for my own peace of mind too. I don’t really feel like seeing her face again or much less, sitting down at some restaurant or café to rehash issues. Is closure really necessary? I know I’m alright without it and to be frank, I don’t really care if she’s still hung over on our relationship because of the wrong she did.

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